Wednesday, June 24, 2009
Tuesday, June 23, 2009
There is always an exception...
Yesterday, I got out some "new" shoes for Karina from our hand-me-down box. One is a pair of white sandals that have velcro closures on the front and back. We tried them all on and when it came time to try the sandals, I fit them to her foot and explained that when she puts them on, she will only have to undo the back velcro each time. The front can stay closed and she can just slip her feet in and out. No big deal really...unless you are Karina.
When we put shoes on this morning, she excitedly chose the new sandals. She clarified once more with me to make sure that it was okay to just use the back velcro, trying hard to understand why you would not want to undo the whole thing every time. I reassured her that it was the way to go to save time and keep things easy. She agreed reluctantly once again, but I could tell she wasn't believing that this was really the way to go.
As we were driving, I noticed she was unusually quiet, clearly deep in thought. Finally, my curiosity got the best of me and I had to know what she was thinking about so seriously.
She looked up at me in the mirror (almost in tears) as she said: "but Mommy, if my sandals were on fire, would it be okay to undo the front velcro? I wouldn't want my feet to burn up! That would be okay, right?"
So...when you see our Karina putting on her sandals the hard way every time...just go with it.
Monday, June 22, 2009
Kindergarten Graduation
Jadyn's last day of school was officially today.
But last Friday she had her Kindergarten class graduation. The kids made graduation caps, dressed nice, and held a small ceremony in the cafeteria.
Her teacher, Mrs. Roddy, had the kids sing a few songs, recite lines together to a poem, and even made a really neat slideshow of the kids during the schoolyear.
Jadyn was so proud - and we're so proud of the great year she had!
Way to go, JJ!
Sunday, June 14, 2009
Friday, June 12, 2009
How do you keep a straight face?
Ever had those moments when you're trying to discipline your child, and they say just the right thing that makes you lose your composure? And, of course, once you lose it, there's really no going back. Along those lines, this happened today... (sorry - the lead-in is long, but it's worth it)
Karina is our surveyor. You know... the people who mark out property line boundaries. She's always testing the waters, seeing how far she can go, pushing the boundaries.
We've been dealing with the issue of 'sticking out your tongue' the last few weeks or so. Wherever she picked it up, she's decided that this is her new way of dealing with a frustrating situation. Always out of our sight, always towards her big sister. Very sneaky. (Can't wait until the teen years - yikes!)
Our methods of dealing with issues like this have to constantly change with Karina. One week, a certain form of discipline works. The next week, it does not. We began with time-outs and an apology this time, explaining why it was not okay to treat someone this way. But no result. We even tried a little soap - if your mouth is doing something dirty, maybe we need to clean it. Still no result. So Julie was talking to a friend last night who had another suggestion - something she had tried with one of her children.
So today when Karina again stuck her tongue out at Jadyn, we thought we would give it a try. I pulled her aside (after having her apologize) and brought a roll of blue painting tape with me - the kind that removes very easily from walls and coincidentally, skin. Sitting next to her, I began to explain to her that since she continued to use her mouth for something it was not meant to do, I was going to put a little piece of tape on her mouth and she was not going to be allowed to use it for a period of time.
I told her she would not be allowed to talk. At this point, her lower lip began to quiver; the thought of not talking is very tough for our little talker. "But, Daddy..." she began...
Now this was right as I had set out lunch, so I then told her that since she could not use her mouth, she would also not be allowed to eat.
This is where I lost it, because in the 2 seconds it took for that reality to sink in,
her eyes widened,
began to water,
and she held her arms straight out to the sides (like Jesus on the cross),
rolled her shoulders forward, and said with defeated desperation,
"But then I will die!"
Apparently she thought I meant 'forever.' I couldn't help it - I lost it, and began to laugh. I tried to catch myself, hoping to hold on to my intended seriousness of the moment, but it was so hard. "No you won't, Honey. It's only going to be for 5 minutes."
Julie was in the next room laughing, which really didn't help me keep it together, but we couldn't help ourselves. All I can say is... maybe we put a little of the fear of God into her and with luck we won't be having the same issue anymore.
She did survive, by the way. She had to sit at the bar in front of her lunch, next to her sister who was eating with a five-minute head start, and watch the whole time. But she ate her meal well after we took the tiny piece of tape off. But I think a little did sink in.
Ahh - the mind of a four-year-old~
Karina is our surveyor. You know... the people who mark out property line boundaries. She's always testing the waters, seeing how far she can go, pushing the boundaries.
We've been dealing with the issue of 'sticking out your tongue' the last few weeks or so. Wherever she picked it up, she's decided that this is her new way of dealing with a frustrating situation. Always out of our sight, always towards her big sister. Very sneaky. (Can't wait until the teen years - yikes!)
Our methods of dealing with issues like this have to constantly change with Karina. One week, a certain form of discipline works. The next week, it does not. We began with time-outs and an apology this time, explaining why it was not okay to treat someone this way. But no result. We even tried a little soap - if your mouth is doing something dirty, maybe we need to clean it. Still no result. So Julie was talking to a friend last night who had another suggestion - something she had tried with one of her children.
So today when Karina again stuck her tongue out at Jadyn, we thought we would give it a try. I pulled her aside (after having her apologize) and brought a roll of blue painting tape with me - the kind that removes very easily from walls and coincidentally, skin. Sitting next to her, I began to explain to her that since she continued to use her mouth for something it was not meant to do, I was going to put a little piece of tape on her mouth and she was not going to be allowed to use it for a period of time.
I told her she would not be allowed to talk. At this point, her lower lip began to quiver; the thought of not talking is very tough for our little talker. "But, Daddy..." she began...
Now this was right as I had set out lunch, so I then told her that since she could not use her mouth, she would also not be allowed to eat.
This is where I lost it, because in the 2 seconds it took for that reality to sink in,
her eyes widened,
began to water,
and she held her arms straight out to the sides (like Jesus on the cross),
rolled her shoulders forward, and said with defeated desperation,
"But then I will die!"
Apparently she thought I meant 'forever.' I couldn't help it - I lost it, and began to laugh. I tried to catch myself, hoping to hold on to my intended seriousness of the moment, but it was so hard. "No you won't, Honey. It's only going to be for 5 minutes."
Julie was in the next room laughing, which really didn't help me keep it together, but we couldn't help ourselves. All I can say is... maybe we put a little of the fear of God into her and with luck we won't be having the same issue anymore.
She did survive, by the way. She had to sit at the bar in front of her lunch, next to her sister who was eating with a five-minute head start, and watch the whole time. But she ate her meal well after we took the tiny piece of tape off. But I think a little did sink in.
Ahh - the mind of a four-year-old~
Mustache Month
The guys and I decided to try something different at work... we've decided June is Mustache Month. No reason in particular... just something different to do. Re-living how firemen of the past looked, I guess - they had no facepieces or air tanks to protect them from the noxious smoke, so they grew big, bushy mustaches to help them filter-breathe through the smoke. (True)
I was emptying the dishwasher at home while the girls were eating lunch the other day. While my back was to the girls, I suddenly began to hear those precious little giggles from behind me that told me something was up. I turned around, and my girls had their 'face-cleaning rags' rolled up and resting on their upper lips. "Look, Daddy," they said in unison, "we have mustaches, too."
My girls are so funny. Rather than try to explain why it is not quite the same when a lady has a mustache, I quickly grabbed the camera and we posed together. Ahh... another picture to pull out later in life and laugh about together~
I was emptying the dishwasher at home while the girls were eating lunch the other day. While my back was to the girls, I suddenly began to hear those precious little giggles from behind me that told me something was up. I turned around, and my girls had their 'face-cleaning rags' rolled up and resting on their upper lips. "Look, Daddy," they said in unison, "we have mustaches, too."
My girls are so funny. Rather than try to explain why it is not quite the same when a lady has a mustache, I quickly grabbed the camera and we posed together. Ahh... another picture to pull out later in life and laugh about together~
(Unfortunately the cup in front of Karina blocks her a bit...)
More fun at the Parks
More fun days at the park. The weather has been so nice for the last 3 weeks. We've spent as much free time as possible at neighborhood parks. You couldn't ask for a better way to kick off the summer.
Saturday, June 06, 2009
A day at the Zoo
We spent most of today at the Woodland Park Zoo. Grammy and Grandpa, Uncle Nick, Aunt Stephany, cousin Caelan, and our friend Anna all came along to join us. The kids (and the rest of us) had a great time. After a week of 90+ degree weather, today was a perfect cool 70 and overcast - perfect weather for the zoo.
http://picasaweb.google.com/MForee/WoodlandParkZooVisit#
Check out our family photo page for some pictures from our visit. Here's a small sample to wet your appetite:Picnic at the Park
We went to Lake Wilderness Park by our house for a picnic lunch last week. The girls had a great time, enjoyed their lunches, and spents lots of time playing after lunch.
Mommy and Makenzie cuddled on the blanket while Jadyn, Karina, and Daddy played an exhausting game of tag in the 90 degree weather. It was a perfect afternoon~
Monday, June 01, 2009
A little Pun goes a long way
Jadyn is sitting with Julie and Karina right now and going over her spelling/reading word lists for school. She came across the word 'pun'...
Jadyn: Mommy, what's a pun?
Daddy: A pun is a joke like Grandpa tells.
Jadyn: Which one?
Daddy: Here's an example - What did the cow say to the other cow when he wanted to sit down?
Jadyn: I don't know
Daddy: Mooooooooooove over!
Jadyn & Karina: laughing
Daddy: See - the 'pun' part is the Moooooo in move. The answer is 'move over', but it's a pun because you say 'Mooooooooove over.'
Karina: Yeah. It wouldn't be a pun if the cow said, 'Si-iiiiiiiiiiiiiiii-t down'.
I don't know if it translates as funny when you read it, but the way she didn't skip a beat and just blurted it out so matter-of-factly had us rolling on the floor. She's so funny and doesn't even try hard to be - we love it!
Jadyn: Mommy, what's a pun?
Daddy: A pun is a joke like Grandpa tells.
Jadyn: Which one?
Daddy: Here's an example - What did the cow say to the other cow when he wanted to sit down?
Jadyn: I don't know
Daddy: Mooooooooooove over!
Jadyn & Karina: laughing
Daddy: See - the 'pun' part is the Moooooo in move. The answer is 'move over', but it's a pun because you say 'Mooooooooove over.'
Karina: Yeah. It wouldn't be a pun if the cow said, 'Si-iiiiiiiiiiiiiiii-t down'.
I don't know if it translates as funny when you read it, but the way she didn't skip a beat and just blurted it out so matter-of-factly had us rolling on the floor. She's so funny and doesn't even try hard to be - we love it!
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